Action at last. Spent 5 hours at hospital pre op assessment and a good chat to bowel surgeon.Bowel op 27th feb to remove 2 ends of colon .middle portion looks ok meaning it could be reversed but he wont know until he opens dave up. We have left decision with surgeon whether to take it all or not.Then after good recovery tackle liver.Feeling hopeful. Xx thanks for all your support. Will update.